February 10, 2024

Enlightened Dating for Men

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“Enlightened Dating for Men”

is presented as a paradigm shift in the approach men take towards dating, veering away from manipulative tactics and towards a more sincere and value-driven way of connecting with women. Scott Bogart intricately lays out a framework that helps men understand why authenticity, integrity, and enlightenment are not only attractive but also critical for meaningful relationships and dating success. This book guides men on how to resonate with women by being true to themselves and by fostering a deeper understanding of interpersonal dynamics.

At its core, “Enlightened Dating for Men” is rooted in personal growth and reflection. It encourages readers to embark on a journey of self-discovery, reshaping their perspective on dating as part of a larger relationship cycle that’s aligned with personal values and authenticity. By redefining dating philosophy and ethics, the guide steers men away from the pitfalls of inauthentic interactions, instead propelling them towards developing a consistent dating mindset grounded in integrity.

The philosophies within are deeply informed by the interplay between dating and one’s value system. Being genuine and maintaining one’s integrity become not only aspirational goals but practical strategies. Men are prompted to set clear intentions that honor both themselves and their romantic interests, integrating concepts like sex, spirituality, and personal energy into the realm of dating in a revolutionary manner.

Bogart’s methodical approach delves into the complexity of attraction by elucidating the ‘SUE’ model—Safety, Understanding, and Excitement. Each element is meticulously explored, emphasizing the importance of creating an environment where potential partners feel secure, comprehended, and exhilarated. The nuanced discussion of the Law of Attraction, belief management, and mindset reinforces the belief that becoming skilled in the art of dating is as much an internal endeavor as it is an external one.

Confidence is positioned as a cornerstone of Bogart’s ideology, advocating for a balanced self-perception. By blending confidence with honesty, trust, and being able to identify the pros in situations, the guide equips men with the tools to amplify their ‘sticky factor’, or the ability to remain attractively memorable to women. It also emphasizes the significance of timing, pace, and recognizing attraction beyond superficial qualities, urging men to embrace their strengths and weaknesses unreservedly.

The book tackles the practical aspects of dating, breaking down each stage from presence, body language, and eye contact, to mastering the art of conversation and handling phone and date dynamics. It also addresses challenging areas, such as understanding her need for safety, naturally initiating verbal contact, and the artful acquisition of contact information. The narrative deepens with strategies for first date dynamics, self-control, and lessons from The Tao of Steve, providing comprehensive guidance.

Knowing oneself proves to be as paramount as understanding others. The author dives into personal intrinsic assets, ego, and the significance of taking responsibility and building genuine confidence. The book encourages men to shed their baggage, overcome fear, and step into their real stories, enhancing their appeal through style, grooming, fitness, and leading a fulfilled life.

When seeking a partner, “Enlightened Dating for Men” advocates for clarity in intention—understanding why one desires to be with a woman and acknowledging that women have needs too. The book cautions against attracting women through manipulative means, suggesting a design based on serendipity and genuine compatibility, and fosters insightful human interaction as the best path to meaningful romantic connections.

Connecting with women is portrayed as an art form, echoing the sentiment that while men are often the pursuers, it’s essential to harbor a love for all women. Bogart teaches readers to navigate body language and initiate conversations effectively, even encompassing elements like discussing past relationships to foster trust and understanding. Control of desire and the concept of ‘friends’ are examined as essential parts of the dating interaction.

Bogart also dedicated sections to identifying the right kind of women to date, how beliefs can shape one’s reality, and the importance of distinguishing between substance and facade. The book warns against women who may not be a good match and explores the concepts of Venus and the sea of opportunities in dating.

Perhaps most significantly, “Enlightened Dating for Men” doesn’t shirk the realities of successful dating encounters. It immerses into creative dating ideas, the importance of reading women accurately, and balancing allowing relationships to evolve naturally vs. forcing them. It tackles tough topics like the dynamics of sexual desire, control, and dealing with expectations, approaching human nature with a lens that both understands and respects the complexity of emotions.

The book culminates with the importance of knowing when to move forward or break it off in a relationship, emphasizing the recognition of ‘the diamond’—the ideal partner who complements one’s life—and the respect for each other’s desires. The guidance provided for knowing when and how to exit a relationship reflects the overall theme of compassion and understanding that runs throughout the guide.

Skill Set: Relationship Skills
Experience Level: Beginner
Learning Format: Kindle eBook, Book
Coach or Expert: Scott Bogart
Release Date: September 15, 2010

“Enlightened Dating for Men” is an essential guide for any man beginning their journey in the dating world or looking to refine their approach with a foundation of respect, understanding, and authenticity.

Table Of Contents/ List Of Topics Covered:

What is Enlightened Dating?
– Dating as part of the relationship cycle
– Dating that is in alignment with your values
– Being authentic
– Dating with integrity
– Dating philosophy and ethics
– Setting your intention
– Sex and spirituality
– Energy and dating
– Statiscis (level 1) and attractor patterns (level 2)
– Dating Success Factors

Dating Success Factors: Overview

– The concept of ‘SUE’ (Safety, Understanding, and Excitement)
– THe nuances of the Law of Attraction
– Belief management
– Mindset
– Practice
– Confidence
– Being able to see the upside
– Honesty and trust
– Increasing your ‘sticky factor’
– Timing and pace
– The ‘attraction model’
– Generating ‘non-visual attraction’
– You strenghts and weakness
– Being your best while being you
– The Doormat/Jerk Spectrum
– Prudent Vulnerability
– Statistics (level 1)
– Attractor patterns (level 2)
– Embracing rejection
– Going where the women are
– Props
– Presence (how you occupy space)
– You body language
– Eyes and smile
– Her body language
– Avoiding paralysis
– Communicating the possibility of romance
– Understanding her need for safety
– Understanding her need to be understood
– Naturally initiating verbal contact
– The art of conversation
– Obtaining her contact information
– Dating phone dynamics
– First date dynamics
– Second date dynamics
– Subsequent dates, sex, and expectations
– Self-control
– Lessons from The Tao of Steve

Knowing Yourself

– Your personal intrinsic assets
– Your ego
– Taking responsibility
– Being real
– You baggage
– Building confidence
– Understanding fear
– Stepping into the ‘real story’ of who you are
– Style and Grooming
– Getting fit
– Have a life!

Knowing Who & What You Are Looking For

– Knowing why you want to be with a woman
– Women have needs too
– Being careful ‘how’ you attract women
– Design and serendipity

Human Interaction: The Best Path to Dating Interaction

– Human interaction is crucial
– Human interaction vs. romantic interaction
– The ‘Good Habits’ with people in general
– Honoring everyone
– Become an elightened conversationalist
– You personal charisma

Interaction with Women of Interest

– The ‘Good Habits’ with women of interest
– Men are the pursuers ninety-five percent of the time
– Love all women
– The body language of women
– Using body language
– The interaction progression
– Initiating conversations with women of interest
– Her relationship status and what it means
– Boyfriend status and the benefits of open discussion of past relationship
– Magically jumpstarting trust and understanding
– In-depth discussion of her past relationships
– Spiritual magically elements
– Controlling your desire
– ‘Friends’

Finding the Right Women to Date

– The sea is full
– Using your beliefs to create reality
– Trust, but with eyes wide open
– Substance vs. facade
– Women to avoid
– Venus

Successful Dating

– Creative dating
– Reading women
– Allowing vs. forcing
– How to know she’s ready to kiss
– The right time to have sex
– Dynamics of sexual desire
– Dynamics of control
– Dealing with expectations
– Human nature
– Comply with yourself
– Walk-away power
– Understand her concept of how love is expressed
– More about honesty and trust: case studies
– Dealing with questions about other women

Moving Forward/Breaking It Off

– Recognizing ‘the diamond’
– Respecting each other’s desires
– Knowing when to get out
– How to get out

Summary