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The Online Dating Playbook

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The comprehensive guide for online dating, created by P.J. McMilen, is a valuable resource for anyone interested in mastering the art of online seduction. It ambitiously covers an extensive array of topics tailored to enhance your online dating profile and improve your interaction skills with potential matches, ensuring that you project the best version of yourself in the online dating sphere.

The guide kicks off with a vibrant introduction that compels you to “Step Out Onto the Field,” addressing common issues faced by many in the dating scene, such as “Approaching Anxiety” and “Pre-Game Nerves.” It moves forward to discuss how to outshine the “Dumb Ass Competition,” a term resonating with the pickup artist community where outwitting the competition is often key.

In the subsequent chapters, the book delves into strategies for establishing “Your Value,” making sure that you stand out as a catch. The guide emphasizes that while your potential match “Is Special,” it’s essential that “She Earns It.” This plays into the dynamics of mutual attraction and respect, where both parties value each other highly.

.The seduction process is covered thoroughly, advising on how to “Arouse Her” and “Make Her Comfortable” before you’ve even begun — the concept of “Win B4 you Begin” is central to the teachings, implying the importance of building a strong foundation during the initial stages of contact.

.The guide teaches men to perceive “You Are The Prize,” focusing on self-value and confidence, which are fundamental within the PUA community. By “Becoming Confident” and playing “Confident and Safe,” it instills the idea that shifting your perception can have profound effects on your dating success.

Moving beyond the abstract, the book also offers pragmatic advice regarding profile characterization. In “The Art of the Photo,” it presents tips to ingeniously showcase “Body Language and Confidence,” along with expressing your personal “Style.” Whether it’s through buying new attire or capturing pictures that show you’re socially attuned, men learn to signal that “Women are Attracted to You.”

Detailing what to “Show” versus what to “Tell” in your profile, the guide encourages demonstrating a “Passion,” whether by including “Funny Pics,” engaging in a “Sport,” or checking your “Kit,” ensuring that every profile detail adds to an attractively rounded depiction of a sophisticated, interesting individual.

As the guide progresses, it tackles profile descriptions and how to “Show Yourself” authentically. It presents the “Got Skills” portion where men can exhibit their talents and interests, crafting a personal narrative within the “Your Profile” section that appeals to potential matches.

Transitioning to communication tactics, “The Name of the Game” is discussed, exploring the “Equipment” you need to get started, quizzing techniques, and how to approach someone based on the “Last Time they Were Online.” It offers a granular analysis of “What 2 Write,” ensuring you make the perfect first impression with “The Approach.”

The guide doesn’t shy away from profiling, from the “Shy Girl” to the “Ball Buster,” providing detailed strategies for engaging with diverse personality types. Chapters 9 and 10 cover critical areas such as “Grammar,” “Planting Seeds,” and specific “Plays,” equipping users with the tools to handle various scenarios and types of interactions.

Towards the end, P.J. McMilen introduces advanced concepts like “Sequencing,” “Adapting,” and “Logistics,” all crucial for a seamless transition from an online connection to an in-person meeting. The final parts of the book, including “Arrange a Time,” “Building Trust n Comfort,” and “IM Basic Skills,” ensure that readers are well-prepared for the eventual move from digital to real-world interaction.

The artful conclusion of the book leaves users with advanced communication skills in “Speech – How to Say it” and “The Art of Conversation,” ultimately preparing them for “Concluding the Call,” and finalizing plans to meet their online match.

– Skill Set: Meeting Women, Attracting Women

– Experience Level: Beginner
– Learning Format: eBook
– Coach/Expert: P.J. McMilen
– Release Date: June 03, 2010

This guide is an invaluable resource for beginners in the pickup artist community, offering dating tips and advice from an experienced PUA. Whether you’re completely new to the realm of online dating or simply want to refine your approach, this eBook provides the foundational knowledge and advanced techniques to enhance your online dating experiences.

Table Of Contents/ List Of Topics Covered:

Part 1:

Chapter 1:

– Step Out Onto the Field
– Approaching Anxiety
– Pre Game Nerves
– Dumb Ass Competition

Chapter 2:

– Your Value
– She Is Special
– Make Her Earn It
– Arouse Her
– Make Her Comfortable
– Win B4 you Begin

Chapter 3:

– You Are The Prize
– Become Confident
– Play Confident and Safe
– Shift Your Perception
– Total Commitment
– Avoid Rashes

Part 2:

Chapter 4:

– Coach Says

Chapter 5:

– Say it With Smile
– The Art of the Photo
– Body Language and Confidence
– Style
– Buy Some Style
– Show Women are Attracted to You
– Show you are Social
– Show don’t Tell
– Do a Passion
– Your Main Photo
– Include Funny Pics
– Do a Sport
– Check your kit

Chapter 6:

– Describe Yourself
– Show Yourself
– Things 2 Avoid
– Got Skills
– Your Profile

Part 3:

Chapter 7:

– The Name of the Game
– Where is the Goal?
– Your Equipment
– Quizs and Tests
– The Last Time they Were Online
– What 2 Write
– The Approach

Chapter 8:

– Profiling
– Women with Short Profiles
– Women with Long Profiles
– Shy Girl
– She is Hot and Knows It
– Artists
– The Ball Buster

Chapter 9:

– Grammar
– Plant Seeds
– Read Her Profile
– Taylor Your Emails
– Watch Your Tone
– Mirroring
– The Subject Line
– More than 1
– Don’ts

Part 4:

Chapter 10:

– Don’t Play it Cool
– About These Plays
The Lays:
– Play No. 1
– Play No. 2
– Play No. 3
– Play No. 4
– Play No. 5
– Play No. 6
– Play No. 7
– Play No. 8
– Play No. 9
– Play No. 10

Part 5:

Chapter 11:

– Sequencing
– Adapting
– Logistics

Chapter 12:

– Arrange a Time
– Build Trust n Comfort
– IM Basic Skills
– IM Play No 1
– Further Considerations

Chapter 13:

– Speech – How to Say it
– Speech – What to say
– The Art of Conversation
– Concluding the Call
– The End