February 10, 2024

Happier Abroad: Why You Will Have A Better Love and Life Beyond America

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The quintessential guide for men seeking to enhance their relationships and social skills abroad

The quintessential guide for men seeking to enhance their relationships and social skills abroad, this comprehensive book delves into the intricacies of international dating and personal connections. The author, Winston Wu, is a seasoned expert in cross-cultural dynamics, offering a refreshing alternative for those disenchanted with the American dating scene. Throughout his book, he chronicles authentic experiences, and rich comparisons, drawing on first-hand perspectives to illuminate life outside the societal constraints often found within the U.S.

For the man who has found the U.S. dating environment to be superficial and disconnected, Wu’s insights into more substantive relationships overseas are invaluable. The book is not just a narrative, but an expose on cultural differences that usually go unspoken. The testimonies within are powerful, giving men a clear understanding that quality companionship and approachable women are plentiful and standard around the world.

Designed for beginners, this book has a laser focus on building relationships, underscoring the nuances of social interactions across various countries. Wu deftly highlights the contrasts in social culture and architecture, shedding light on how different environments influence human connectivity. By exploring the normative social behaviors beyond American borders, the reader gains profound awareness of communal versus isolated cultures.

Winston Wu tackles the topic of clique culture and how it restricts social flow, a pertinent issue for many men who find the American dating and social structure limiting. He questions the North American approach to talking to strangers as compared to more open and engaging attitudes found abroad. Wu illustrates, with examples, how ‘breaking the ice’ and social spontaneity are markedly different in the United States, where often going out alone means staying alone.

Drawing on his personal journey, Wu conveys his incompatibility with American social norms and presents an eye-opening comparison between closed, cliquish cultures and open, passionate social environments. American workaholism, often worn as a badge of honor, is critiqued by Wu, who highlights the value of leisure and personal relationships elsewhere.

Wu doesn’t shy away from presenting documented evidence relating to the American trend towards anti-social behavior in certain contexts. He insightfully discusses how American culture tends to define identity through social groups, contrasting this with other countries that value individual character and personal connections.

The book navigates the complex terrain of friendships in the U.S. versus other countries

The book navigates the complex terrain of friendships in the U.S. versus other countries, weighing in on the pervasive American sense of separateness and the resultant over-inflation of self, which starkly contrasts with the interconnectedness and wholeness prevalent in other societies. Family dynamics, social greetings, and communication styles are also dissected under Wu’s critical lens.

In a society that often emphasizes artificiality, Wu’s scrutiny of the American social facade versus the natural, relaxed ways found in other cultures is illuminating. He goes on to compare laughter, curiosity, and the treatment of intellectuals, reaching the unsettling conclusion that America’s quirkiness often leads to the isolation of those who are different.

The essence of Wu’s argument is captured in the comparison of nightlife, consumerism, and portrayal of freedom in the U.S. versus its international counterparts. Wu is relentless in his examination of the American propensity for control and conformity, which stands in stark opposition to the genuine freedom and democracy found elsewhere.

For those men who are drawn to a robust critique of American culture, especially in the areas of dating, social connection, and self-esteem, Wu serves as a guide for embracing global alternatives. He provides logical explanations as to why the Pickup Artist (PUA) tactics often fall short, advocating for ‘Global Dating‘ as a more sustainable solution to finding fulfillment and personal satisfaction.

Lastly, this book, crafted for those at the beginning of their relationship-building journey, comes in a convenient Kindle eBook format. Authored by Winston Wu and released on January 1, 2010, it’s a treasure trove for anyone seeking a life enriched by meaningful connections with quality partners and supportive social environments across the globe.

Skill Set:

Relationship Skills

Experience Level:

Beginner

Learning Format:

Kindle eBook

Coach or Expert:

Winston Wu

Release Date:

January 01, 2010

Table Of Contents/ List Of Topics Covered:

– Introduction

– A Big Secret I want to share with you
– Why people leave America: The Real Reasons
– Social culture and people

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– Highlights of general differences
– Why America is so bad for Social Life, Dating and Mental Health
– What America is good for and what it isn’t
– Black cookie cutter architecture vs. rich stimulating one
– Meeting people – clique restrictions vs. free-flowing
– Isolation/exclusive vs. Communal/inclusive atmosphere
– Talking to strangers – North America vs. Most Countries

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– ‘Breaking the ice’ – Proof that Americans are uncomfortable talking to strangers
– In America: going out alone = staying alone
– The big social Catch-22 in America
– Why I am incompatible with the American social environment
– Closed cliquish business cultures vs. Open passionate social cultures
– Americans by their actions love being lonely workaholics
– Documented proof of anti-sociality in America in one of the worst places
– Identity determined by cliques vs. who you are
– Friendships – US vs. most countries
– Interconnectedness vs. Separateness: Why Americans overinflate themselves and try to ‘fit in’
– Fragmentation vs. Wholeness: Why you feel alone and insecure in America
– Family harmony vs. Fight for control
– Artificial smiles/greetings vs. sincere ones
– Social communication style – artificial/plastic front vs. natural/relaxed
– American laughter – constrained/inhibited vs. Foreign laughter – flowing/uninhibited
– Lack of intellectual curiosity in America
– Cultured Foreigners vs. Uncultured Americans
– Intellectuals young and old
– Persecution of geeks and nerds – America’s unwholesome quirk
– Being different or a misfit = alienation in America
– Blacks and Asians – Inferiority complex vs. wholesome integration
– Rich inner life vs. total emphasis on outer
– Letters from typical American vs. European youngsters (See for yourself)
– Young people – empty bags of air vs. depth
– Nightlife: America vs. Europe, Russia, Latin America
– American Culture/Life = Hype + Consumerism
– Propaganda vs. Real Life in America
– The Industrial Culture and Automaton Populace of America
– Debunking the Myth of Freedom and Democracy in America
– The Big Lie: Why America is all about Control and Conformity, not Truth or Freedom
– Four Catch-22’s in America you’re not supposed to see
– Why immigrants don’t assimilate well in America
– What immigrants and foreigners say about America that you never hear in the US media
– The US media’s misportrayal of other countries vs. Reality
– Careers and the workaholic mentality in America
– The True Purpose of Education in America: Indoctrination, Buffer Class, Dumbing Down
– Will you be a Robot or Bum? Is there a Third Alternative?
– Film and Media: Entertainment vs. Art
– Inverse between social atmosphere and paid friendliness
– Fragile/high strung egos vs. thick skin/carefree attitude
– Bragging and competitiveness of male ego vs. brotherly camaraderie
– Pseudo-confidence and paranoia – 2 elements of American personality
– Studies that show America to be the most dysfunctional in the industrialized world
– Comparing quality of life: America vs. Europe
– Europe safer for lone female travelers than America
– The rigid compartmentalization of American life – Is it freedom?
– Disadvantageous American quirks not shared in other cultures
– Why hippie counter-culture groups aren’t the answer to my ostracization in America
– Fattening processed food vs. wholesome natural food
– Why Global Dating works for any average decent male
– Why PUA doesn’t really work but Global Dating does
– Upper vs. Lower Tiers: Different dating markets for men
– Meeting and dating women
– Single men outnumber single women in America
– Why America has the worst dating scene for men
– The sad lonely life of a typical single man in the USA
– Holding conversations with women
– European/Russian women have a better combination of qualities
– 6 Major advantages of European/Russian women over American women The sad lonely life of a typical single man in the USA
– Holding conversations with women
– Fear of rejection becoming unnecessary
– Surplus vs. shortage of attractive mentally healthy single women
– Beauty and brains common vs. rare
– Personal ads and New Age groups – US vs. Abroad
– European/Russian women have a better combination of qualities
– 6 Major advantages of European/Russian women over American women
– Admiration vs. hatred for men
– Misportrayal of men in America by feminist media
– The most narcissistic and paranoid women in the world
– Why American women don’t make good wives – narcissistic and sociopathic
– Lions and hyenas = Me and American women?
– Approachable Faces of Foreign Women